The idea that women are somewhat complicated is not very far from the truth. Both sexes however tend to communicate differently. This can make navigating the dating waters especially in its earliest stages even more frustrating. For a person you’re very attracted to and would want to have for keeps, you may want to hurry up the process. In doing so, you may want to impress her with your words and actions.

While they’re a lot of things to do to impress or please your woman, there are some no-nos you should never fall into. This piece will look at six of them.

Brag about how much money you make

In today’s world where a lot of importance is placed on men being successful and capable, the tendency to brag when you find yourself in a comfortable spot is high, especially to a new flame. However, they’re lots of other ways you can tell a woman you make a good living without resorting to bragging. Not only is this a turn off for many women, but bragging also reeks of pride and sometimes bellies a low self-esteem. If you’re also going through a rough patch, nothing stops you from telling your intended SO. If they’re the one for you, they’ll stay.

Abandon your own opinions

If you’re intending to go into a relationship with someone, then you mustn’t be afraid to let them know your opinions. Pop culture has built the impression that people especially couples should not have dissenting opinions. This is not true. Two people can see things differently and still form a strong bond regardless. Your intended partner needs to know your opinions as they’re a window to how you think and see life. Even if it’s a little as which swallow is better between semo and fufu, you better let her know!

Abandon your friends and family

It’s easy to get carried away in a new relationship, especially in the honeymoon phase. This is because you’re investing time into building something new and hopefully, lasting. However, be conscious of the other relationships in your life. If your new partner does not approve of them or is overly critical and judgemental of your friends and family, it may be a time to step back and reevaluate if she really fits into your life.

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Buy her affection

There’s no harm in gifting the woman you like especially when you’re excited about the friendship. She’ll see that you think of her and thought has gone into procuring her a gift. This will cause her to appreciate you even more. However, the intention is also crucial. If you’re buying her gifts simply to impress her then it may be a rabbit hole you may never return from. Also, if she’s making huge demands of you monetary wise, like paying off her debts or always needing money to solve a quick problem then you may want to take some steps back again and reevaluate as she may be taking advantage of you already.

Fight other men for her

Whether we like to admit it or not, chivalry is still very much alive and women have these little expectations from their men, wanting them to protect or defend their “honour.” If you’re out together and say, another man disrespects her or even gets physical it’s expected that you step in or she may conclude you’re a wuss. But, no need to play hero here. Ask for help from higher authorities like the police to mediate in the situation. However, in the case where she’s pitting you against another man to fight for her love, you should definitely walk away from such situations. Chances are she’s not mature enough to handle a relationship if she pulls stunts like that.

Hide who you truly are

It’s okay to want to put up a good foot forward like cleaning up extra or taking longer hours putting together an outfit on a day out with your new crush. However, changing your lifestyle entirely to fit into another person’s own is NOT OKAY. If you hate going out to parties or staying out late at night, for instance, no need to pretend about it as this will pose a problem in the future. You both can either find a middle ground on things you don’t see eye to eye on or just remain friends. Also, don’t hide your emotions because men are supposed to be hard and tough. It’s actually unattractive, hoarding what you feel. Women appreciate when a man is more vocal about his emotions and is able to communicate just what he thinks about certain issues. Avoid hiding your emotions just to impress a woman.

Finally, you’re good enough. It’s never a good idea to overtly try to please another person as you may lose your own identity in the process. You can be open-minded and willing to learn other things about the person’s interest to bond better with them but remember, your original self is good enough.

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