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An office spouse is that person of the opposite s*x who appears to be your closest buddy at work.

 

Office spouse is a phrase coined to describe the new relationship phenomenon that’s developed as people work longer, harder, and in closer proximity with members of the opposite s*x.

 

You and your office spouse share inside jokes, lunch breaks, and even a flirtatious smile or two. He or she understands your work frustrations.

 

You both tell each other you are just friends, but the signs below are proof that your colleague may just be your office spouse.

Signs That You Have An Office Spouse; Ways To Bond Professionally
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— You know almost as much about each other’s personal lives as your close friends and significant other do.

 

— You confide in each about work-related issues and other personal problems.

 

— You look forward to going to work because you’re going to see this person.

 

— Even though your relationship is strictly platonic, colleagues often joke that you act like a married couple.

 

When handled correctly, having a close relationship with a coworker of the opposite s*x can actually be beneficial.

 

Being able to share work vibes with a coworker allows you to have someone to confide in, lean on during stressful work situations, share thoughts about office politics, and celebrate good times.

 

However, the long 8-hour days, late evenings, or weekends at the office can create tension between you, your work spouse, and most importantly your actual spouse( if you have one).

 

The temptation to let your work relationship develop into an office romance can jeopardize your relationship, your professional reputation, and your job status especially if it is against company policy.

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Consider the tips below to maintain a fun, yet professional bond in the office.

Signs That You Have An Office Spouse; Ways To Bond Professionally
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— Avoid crossing boundaries. While it’s great to have the support of a confidante at work, provide clear boundaries between work and personal issue

 

— Don’t share too much personal information at work or accept personal info from your colleagues.

 

— Other simple gestures include keeping physical contact at a professional level, limiting unnecessary meals, meetings and business travel between you two, and placing boundaries on after-work correspondence.

 

— Keep lines of communication open. Spend extra time connecting and communicating with your coworkers.

 

— Relating more to your other team members rather than just your office special friend will help squash the rumors about an office romance involving you. Remember to keep the gossips and naysayers at bay by behaving professionally at all times.

 

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