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“I Felt Like A Failure”- Actress Caroline Hutchings Opens Up About Divorce

Nollywood actress Caroline Hutchings has opened up about her divorce for the first time.

Taking to Instagram, the actress shared her experience during the divorce, revealing that her divorce from ex-husband Musa made her feel like a failure.

"I Felt Like A Failure"- Caroline Hutchings Opens Up About The Hurt Of Being Divorce
Photo of Caroline Hutchings and ex husband Musa Danjuma

She revealed that she had held herself responsible for not creating a perfect marriage and blamed herself for mistakes they both made during their marriage.

She wrote, “I blamed myself for not making a perfect marriage, I blamed myself for both faults of ours until I started healing then I knew I was not a failure.

I prayed to God for assistance, most importantly to forgive myself and him.”


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Rather than hate the outcome of what was, I chose love and peace of mind for what is. We both ain’t perfect and that is what makes us human. I dealt with the hurtful words from friends and strangers, the stigma and constant mockery without knowledge of what truly happened.

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God whispered I am with you, and that was it. My journey to finding me began, and I never looked back. I came, I saw, I conquered, most importantly, I have found my lost identity.

Healed, restored, unprovoked, loving and blessed ..#howcarolynagothergrooveback.. thanks to @lanreolusola who spoke through the words in the Bible to help me find my way.”

Caroline Hutchings also pointed out that in some cases, people were better off as friends than lovers advising anyone going through a divorce to see a professional counsellor.

She advised that divorcees kill the hate they might develop for their partners as it will only ruin them.

“Some of us are better off as friends than lovers. It is ok to see a professional counsellor, you ain’t mad you just need clarification. It is ok to fail and rise again. Let God lead you. No hate but love always. Accept your faults forgive the other, and move on in peace.”

This is my first time talking about my divorce, not an easy journey, most times very painful moments especially if you are a perfectionist and kids are involved. Kill the hate it will only ruin you. If you are wondering how you will pick up financially, trust me you will, just stay focused and determined. Love without regrets.”

Caroline Hutchings tied the knot with billionaire businessman Musa Danjuma in 2004.

They had three children two boys and a girl together before the marriage crashed in 2014 over alleged infidelity.


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