You might think that only women make bluffs in the bedroom, but one in four males admit to having done so at some point in their s*x lives.
However, it’s evident that these Oscar-worthy acting performances are not limited to the feminine gender. What’s going on? Faking orgasms appears to be related to relationship problem-solving for both men and women, namely how one is regarded during and after s*x.
Men who have impersonated women say they moan, make vocalizations and alter their physical gestures. And there might be a variety of causes behind the deed.
So Why Men Fake Orgasms
1. To make haste with a delayed orgasm.
On average, data show that men tend to take about seven minutes from penetration to climax. If a man believes he’s taking too long, he may decide it’s best to fake the orgasm and get the s*xual act over with.
2. To conceal premature ejaculation
Some men pretend to have an orgasm as a front for premature ejaculation, says urologist Craig Niederberger, MD, FACS, head of the department of urology at the University of Illinois in Chicago.
To preserve his pride. For men who lose an erection during s*x or sense they won’t be able to have an orgasm, it might be easier to fake the orgasm than to talk about why it didn’t occur.
3. To please his partner.
A man faking an orgasm might be worried that his partner is uncomfortable due to the length of intercourse. He might also be concerned that his partner will feel hurt if they stop s*x before the orgasm.
4. To abide by the “rules.”
Some couples have a certain idea about how s*xual intercourse will play out. Researchers theorize that some men can’t think of another way for s*x to end other than an earth-shattering orgasm, so they end up faking it if it doesn’t happen naturally.
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5. To get things over with.
Occasionally, men have s*x with their partner for the partner’s sake but since they aren’t really into it, they end up faking an orgasm to resolve the situation.
No More Need for Make-Believe: How to Solve the Problem
Faking an orgasm every once in a while might not be a big deal, but if it’s happening on a regular basis, it may be time to get some help. Here are some ideas:
1. Talk to your doctor.
There are a number of medical conditions that can cause delayed orgasm, premature ejaculation, or difficulty maintaining an erection.
But according to Dr. Niederberger, delayed orgasm is something of a subjective measure. “Is it 10 minutes? Or 20 minutes? It’s really up to the man and, of course, his partner,” he says. Bottom line: If it is taking you longer to reach orgasm than you or your partner would like, it’s okay to ask for help.
2. Talk to a therapist.
Occasionally, faking orgasms is rooted in emotional issues. You might need a couples therapist or s*x therapist to help you understand why you are having difficulty experiencing an authentic orgasm with your partner.
3. Cut back on alcohol or illicit drugs.
Men are more likely to fake an orgasm when under the influence, likely due to the fact that substance abuse affects s*xual performance.
There’s no need to feign it. Instead, get to the root of the problem it will lead to a more satisfying s*x life for both you and your partner.
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